When it comes to men it can be harder for you to accept them the way god made them, but you have to consider that God made man in hopes to have some love and light in his world. Men are just as special as women and are considered to hold some of the most important roles in the world.
There was never been a women president for the US, have you ever asked yourself why? Guys are clutch players. They can take the pressure and make it all they can. Women however, they tend to get flustered. They pull through, but they panic.
Guys have a natural calmness, even though most of them can panic at a pin drop, but most of the time, they are the rock that they are considered to be. What you need to do is accept him just as much as he has accepted you and just as God has accepted man.
1) Men and Women think very differently.
Women tend to think with their heart and men are more logical. You can persuade women by touching her emotions; however, if the facts do not add up you cannot persuade a man. That is the greatest thing about a guy taking a guy to pick out a good car or home, because you never can persuade a man with emotion or such.
2) The way that men and women talk.
Men tend to talk aggressively and to the point. They do not get you all the facts, but just enough to give you an idea of what has happened. They also do not bore you with long and drawn out stories. Women on the other hand tend to talk your ear off about the small details. Men also tend to look at things in a different light. They tend to look at things in the whole picture and not the tiny little details. Men are not interested in the details, but they are interested in the outcome.
3) The way that men and women react
Men and women not only talk and think differently, but they tend to react to things differently as well. Men can be aggressive. They can be aggressive in the way that they talk, the way that they walk, and the way that they react to others.
This is not necessarily a bad thing, but they are a little bit rougher in their responses. Men are also brutally honest at times. If you do not want to hear the truth, you should never ask your boyfriend, but your friend for the answer. They will say what they think or feel without any concern for others; because they feel that the truth is always best. Women tend to think that this is rude, but men just think that being honest is right. They also aren't so eager to give out sympathy if you don't deserve it. They aren't going to baby someone who doesn't deserve it. This is just one of the aspects of their personality that women see as being cold, but again, they see it as being honest. There are lots of things that men do that women tend to confuse, but you have to learn how to appreciate your man for who he is and talk to him with understanding.
4) Working out a relationship.
For a relationship to work out you have to mutually respect each other. You will find that you will need to understand each other and appreciate each other for the way the both of you are. Love tends to be very strong willed. You will also find that your relationship with each other may need more than just love. You need to have respect, understanding, and acceptance to make a go at the relationship.
With the respect for each other, you should be able to work on your relationship and you will be able to speak openly about your feelings. You will be able to communicate to each other and your relationship will be stronger than ever. You will be able to have a good, solid relationship once you are able to understand each other. You have to accept each other to want to be in a relationship, but for a real relationship you have to learn how to relate and understand each other or the bond is superficial.
If you really want to get to know your boyfriend or husband you may want to ask to do some of the things that he wants to do. Eat things that he likes, and even talk about how he feels in the relationship. It isn't always about what you want in the relationship, but what he wants out of the relationship as well. You will want to take some of these steps so that you can become closer than ever.
